Navigating Mental Health: Knowing When to Change Your Therapist

Navigating any mental health issue can feel like a solo journey in unfamiliar terrain, with just you and no one to guide you on the right path. However, the journey is much easier with the right therapist who understands your struggles, experiences, and history, and can walk you through the recovery process. How often do people carefully choose their therapist? What is your yardstick for choosing a therapist? What boxes should you tick off? If you are contemplating a change of therapist for any reason, consider reading this blog post first to make an informed choice suited to your mental health needs. Read on to find out what to check off on your list, drawing from an individual's personal experience.

Viola's Story

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Viola has battled ADHD for years. The condition has crippled her life, especially her writing career. Despite her efforts, she can hardly get anything done in record time. She is always behind on project deadlines, which has been a constant source of conflict in her job. Her therapist recommended a treatment plan that she followed to the best of her ability. However, nothing seemed to work. She tried to communicate her frustration and displeasure but was constantly misunderstood. She considered changing her therapist without informing him. A friend advised her to give him the benefit of the doubt. She decided to have one final chat with her therapist about her needs. This opened up opportunities for both sides to better understand each other. The experience taught her the essence of communication and what to look for in a therapist in the future if needed.

Before you replace your therapist, consider...

Lack of Progress

Progress is the first sign to look out for on your journey to mental wholeness. It is crucial to gauge how well your therapy is going and compare where you were before with where you are now in the recovery process. Consider the foreseeable future if the therapy continues, depending on the treatment plan prescribed by your therapist. If no noticeable and measurable progress can be recorded, it is a sign to move on. Your overall well-being should be your main goal, and seeing a therapist who is not helping you achieve that could be counterproductive to your recovery efforts.

Poor Communication and Rapport

Communication is vital for any meaningful progress. Therapy should be your go-to place for unbundling your emotions, expressing yourself freely, and talking about your mental health issues without reservations or fear of judgment. Finding a professional who understands this and is willing to walk you through the process to achieve your treatment goals is critical. So, if you feel the slightest doubt about your therapist or feel uncomfortable discussing your condition, or if you feel misjudged or misunderstood, those might be signs to look elsewhere. Choosing to stay despite these red flags could potentially ruin your efforts.

Feeling Unheard or Invalidated

Your therapist should make you feel better and hopeful about your condition, but more importantly, they should validate your feelings and experiences. They must find the best possible way to help you manage your condition effectively. Discard a therapist who dismisses or invalidates your feelings and experiences. Choosing to stay may not be in your best interest.

Approach and Techniques

Understanding your therapist is as important as understanding their techniques. Every therapist has different methods and procedures for providing support to clients. These methods are not set in stone, yet there are well-known treatment methods, including cognitive-behavioral therapy, trauma-based therapy, mindfulness-based therapy, and several other techniques commonly used to treat various mental health conditions. Every patient's condition is unique, as is the technique that works best for them. If you're considering whether to switch therapists, ask yourself these critical questions: What methods does this therapist use? Will their method work for me, considering my condition? How does their approach align with my needs? Finding answers to these questions is essential for making the right choice of therapist.

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Personal Connection and Comfort Level

A therapist is your confidante, much more than a confidante; they are arguably the only people you can share your deepest needs with (the kind you may never share with anyone else) without risking being judged. So, finding someone you feel connected to and comfortable talking about yourself is essential. Therapy aims to build trust and mutual respect between the professional and the patron. Do not trade those for anything.

Qualifications and Specializations

Choosing a therapist with the professional training required to function in that role will benefit your overall health. Consider their qualifications and area of specialization. Find out if they're qualified and experienced to treat health conditions like yours. This is important for your recovery progress.

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Conclusion

Navigating any mental health issue can feel like a struggle against the wind. However, through therapy, you can find support and treatment suited to your mental health challenges. Understanding how the choice of therapist affects your recovery journey is critical to successfully navigating your condition. The idea of therapy is to help you grow as you heal. Hence, recognizing when to make a change is crucial. Also, understanding your mental health needs, what to check off, and the specialization and qualifications of your therapist are essential. Consider replacing your therapist if they do not meet your needs. Be sure to communicate your frustrations, displeasure, and feelings before switching. A therapist should make you feel heard and respected and must be willing to listen to you when their approach does not yield the desired results. Mental wholeness is your primary goal, so leave any therapist not helping you achieve that. You deserve all the support you can get in your recovery journey. Do not settle for anything less.